Mon Dessein

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ENGLISH version Round 2  With the great news of being cancer free post surgery, I had hope that maybe I won't need chemo after all or maybe a small/lighter one. So that was a massive shock when the oncologist recommended the heaviest and longest chemo as the next phase of the treatment. Why should I undergo such a treatment if I'm cancer free?  Because if there are any cancer cells travelling in my body now, the chemo will kill them. Maybe there isn't but if there is, they will multiply and when I will have a second cancer then it won't be curable. So I will start mid September or so and it will last about 6 months. The drugs provided are hardcore and the cycles I will undergo won't give me any break.  The first 8 weeks, I will have chemo every 2 weeks and then it will be every week. Apparently the 1st week of the cycle you are not feeling good, the 2nd you start to feel better and you are back to "normal" the 3rd week. So in a nutshell, I won't feel g...

15th August 2024 It has been a joy to be home since Saturday the 11th of August with no drains. The days have passed in a blur of cuddles routine and a bit of domestic bliss. All dabbed with rest and relaxing, where and when possible. I really enjoy normality like walking kids to school every morning. Thursday the 15th of August was my checkup post surgery meeting and I was a little torn. Part of me wanted to know how the surgery recovery is going and even more what are the pathological results (has my cancer spread or not?). Another part of me was ignorance is bliss and to not think about the potential next steps (Chemo/radiation). But it is a massive WIN, I'm cancer free!!!!! Not only the surgeon is amazed by her work (to be honest, she did an incredibly good job), and my healing is going very well, but the pathological results are great too. It showed only one cancerous tumour instead of 3, much smaller than expected and the most important is that it hasn't spread. The biops...

English Version  Just as I was starting to settle in to the routine at home, tuesday night brought a lot of pain in the breast. An issue with the drain which made it impossible to sleep during the night.  When the home care nurse visited me on Wednesday, she called my surgeon who asked me to come asap to the hospital to check. After a quick review, it was decided that I'd be re-admitted to hospital to have antibiotics delivered by an IV drip.  So I got brought to a ward in a four beds room only separated by a curtain. Let's just say that the mix of people in this room was confronting to all my senses and going back to hospital that unexpectedly, really hit me hard. On Thursday morning at 6:00 a.m. the surgeon came by and ask me to fast until they know which of these three potential scenarios I would have to follow: Back to the operating theatre to clean the infection  Stay in hospital for few more days to get more antibiotics via IV  Return home quickly with the...

                                                                                  English Version The few hours post surgery were an absolute blur. I know I woke up and felt a massive wave of relief flood through me. However, the anaesthetics kept me in a fog. I was transferred to the ward where I was awoken by Steve who had arrived an hour earlier. It was a shared room but that was totally fine. I had my headphones, my music, my photos, and my videos to keep me busy. Steve and I enjoyed a nice homemade meal and ensure that everything was within reach so I could have a great night of recovery. The nurse came by regularly with drugs, however the pain never really went away.  Saturday morning was probably the hardest as my body was in shock an...

              Friday 2nd August             ENGLISH VERSION What a day! I still haven't learnt patience even though I knew I was going to be in for a long eventful day. I was asked to register at 7:00 a.m but my operation didn't happen until 3pm! As I was requested to fast from 11:00 p.m the night before, headaches started to kick in the morning and did not subside until I went under. Very uneventful morning, once registered we basically played the waiting game watching other people come and go for various surgeries. After 5 hours of sitting next to me Steve had to go and that's when the reality kicked in. The fear was not around losing my breasts or being in pain from the surgery but to not wake up and leave my kids without a mum. This was the time to let go not only of my breasts, but also of the tears that I've probably been holding back for so long. So after a 4 hours surgery, I awoke and even if I'm in a lot of p...

                    ENGLISH  VERSION                                  VERSION FRANCAIS (En bas) Mon Dessein - Dessein means Purpose/Goal in French but it is also a wordplay as it is pronounced “des seins” which means breasts. So this is a story of my health, my journey of breast cancer giving me a new purpose.  I received a lot of support and messages from friends and family and while I really appreciated the attention, I found it sometimes difficult to answer everyone in a timely manner if at all. So I decided that the easiest medium from which I can keep you up to date on my journey will be this blog.  THE FACTS As my family has a high risk of breast cancer, I regularly have routine checks.  Unfortunately, this time the MRI showed 3 abnormal masses and one of them was assessed via a biopsy at the end of May 2024....